Many people I meet tells me that you are too social to be 'Unsocial' . Some even say that it is a publicity stunt you are trying to put together to garner some attention. I don't know how much right/wrong they are. In a world where everything from a smile to orgasm is faked, 'The Unsocial Guy' believes in being candid.
Here is the candid Confession by 'The Unsocial Guy'
1) 'The Unsocial Guy' has never felt the comfort to share. He is afraid of opening up to anyone. Because people always prejudice and assume thing which are often not true. He doesn't like people helping him as people can consider that as favor and start expecting back from him. 'The Unsocial Guy' wants to be free of all expectation. So staying Unsocial helps him not to expect from other and more importantly others not to expect from him.
2) 'The Unsocial Guy' lives by his own principles and philosophies. He highly disregards the Social Paradigms. He knows that if he becomes social, he cannot live his life on his principles. Hence he is 'unsocial' by choice and not by force.'The Unsocial Guy' thinks that being social is being fake. He hates to carry those fakes mask of emotions, fake smiles, fake laughter. He believes in being candid and hence 'unsocial' by choice.
3) 'The Unsocial Guy' agrees with the assumption made by a friend
That people may use the unsocial tag so that they can befriend only those people that they are fond of and find similar to themselves and yet not be expected to be attached or close to them coz of their unsocialness.
Since any other social individuals will find his way of living as weird or something they haven't seen in the fake world. So being Unsocial helps the 'The Unsocial Guy' to stay aloof from people and allow people to stay aloof from him.
4) 'The Unsocial Guy' has tried living the social life. But he doesn't understand the emotions of being together. He finds that Social world is selfish where people just want to fulfill their needs either emotional or physical. Being Unsocial helps him to avoid getting entangled in those emotional traps which might affect his decision process, action and inactions.
5) Although 'The Unsocial Guy' may be seen surrounded by people, talking to people or socializing, but in reality he wants to be alone or with people like him, who are candid, direct and believe in living in the real world rather than the fake one. He is just talking to them to know what people think, how people react under different circumstances and how people fake.
6) He believes that there are three kind of people in this world. i) Strangers ii) Known Strangers(Whom people call so called friends) iii) Special people( These are people for whom one doesn't see his/her calender). Since human nature is being selfish, difficult to find the third category of people in life of any individuals. This is just another reason why he feels the social world is fake.
The above confessions doesn't by any chance signify that 'The Unsocial Guy' does not have any feelings, desires or wishes. But 'The Unsocial Guy' is in a journey where he wishes to reach a state of trance called "Beyond Everything"
"Beyond Everything" to b honest it is a Zone..Where in he is not dependent on any one.He doesn't get affected by surroundings or any one's action or inaction in his life. He knows it is kind of philosophical. He believes that it is difficult but achievable.
